My resolution
holds, one month later; next year
I'll say I won't eat.
Tuesday 31 January 2012
Monday 30 January 2012
Sunday 29 January 2012
Saturday 28 January 2012
Friday 27 January 2012
Thursday 26 January 2012
Wednesday 25 January 2012
Tuesday 24 January 2012
Monday 23 January 2012
Sunday 22 January 2012
Saturday 21 January 2012
Friday 20 January 2012
Thursday 19 January 2012
Wednesday 18 January 2012
Tuesday 17 January 2012
Monday 16 January 2012
16 January Aliums (part two)
The answer revealed:
Do them in their skins. Shallots,
I mean. Not people.
Do them in their skins. Shallots,
I mean. Not people.
Sunday 15 January 2012
Saturday 14 January 2012
14 January Writer (part three)
An eight-year-old girl,
brought by her mother to hear
him, ate a fruit bun.
brought by her mother to hear
him, ate a fruit bun.
13 January Writer (part two)
A latecomer sat down
on the man in front's green scarf.
He fretted for hours.
on the man in front's green scarf.
He fretted for hours.
Thursday 12 January 2012
Wednesday 11 January 2012
11 January Argument (part two)
They're Colombian
(I think). She says England's
More than grey enough.
(I think). She says England's
More than grey enough.
Tuesday 10 January 2012
Monday 9 January 2012
Sunday 8 January 2012
Saturday 7 January 2012
7 January (On Twitter and politics)
Someone said something.
Others confect an anger.
Repeat until sick.
Others confect an anger.
Repeat until sick.
Friday 6 January 2012
Thursday 5 January 2012
An unpopular defence of a woman with a disability
Like most people in this country I don’t know, and I have never met, Heather Mills. As a result I have no real view on her character or morals, which seemingly puts me in a minority in the UK.
But, for the sake of this piece alone, let’s assume that she is as venal and self-obsessed as she is portrayed.
It seems unlikely, but let’s pretend she’s really, really awful. That still wouldn’t justify making jokes about her having lost a leg.
When someone makes a joke about Ms Mills having only one leg, or about her prosthesis (and we’ve all heard them), what they are doing is poking fun at a disabled woman because of her disability.
It’s laughing at a cripple, to be brutal about it.
I have had this argument before, in person, with a colleague who made such a joke. He didn’t care for my objection. His position was that he was making a joke about a horrible woman, a spoiled gold-digger; a deserving target for his ridicule.
See the disclaimer at the top of the piece. If Ms Mills is that awful, then yes, perhaps she does deserve ridicule, and vituperation.
But not for losing a leg. To suffer such an injury in a car accident, or any other way, is worthy only of sympathy. And I have a degree of admiration for her for overcoming such a setback, particularly in appearing on Dancing With The Stars on US TV.
But that’s not important. The point is, it’s not funny and it’s not right to make jokes about her disability.
When Jeremy Clarkson called then PM Gordon Brown “a one-eyed Scottish idiot”, he was rightly criticized for using Brown’s disability against him. And he apologized. When serial offender Jeremy Clarkson understands that making jokes about illness or disability is beyond the pale, then it can’t be that difficult to comprehend.
But to make it plainer. Let’s assume Heather Mills was not one-legged, but, say, black. Same person, same character and (supposed) moral flaws. But with two legs and black. Still deserving then of ridicule for venality, pomposity and all that.
But would those jokes focus on her ethnicity? The colour of her skin, or her hair, or whatever other racist tropes there might be? Would we all gladly laugh along when some comic on a panel show makes a little crack about nasty, greedy Heather Mills and her love of watermelon? No.
So please, if you want to make jokes about a woman you don’t know because you’ve heard she’s awful, then go ahead. But don’t poke fun at her because she’s disabled.
That just isn’t nice.
Wednesday 4 January 2012
Tuesday 3 January 2012
Monday 2 January 2012
Sunday 1 January 2012
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